(^_^) dEmam cEnta.....Cara2 Melupakan Si Dia..~

Remember all the things we wanted.. Now all our memories they're haunted... We were always meant to say goodbye..... I want you to know.. It doesnt matter.. Where we take this road... Someone's gotta go... And I want you to know... You couldnt have loved me better... But I want you to move on... So Im already gone.......~~~~

hahahaha...first post je dh jiwang kan...layankan aje la...actually this is a part of "Already Gone" lyrics, a song by so damn cute and talented Kelly Clarkson (psssttt...even she's now having weight prob, i don mind at all coz she is really a good singer ever)...

I just love to hear to this song so much lately..maybe because of my unstable emotion rite now (nmpak sgt la budak ni dlm kedemaman centa kan..)..

But its ok...the point to share here is how u can be strong to overcome this kind of love matters...mahuk ikut cara saye..?? Lets see whether or not u all can apply this if u guys also have the same matters and experience like me.....(alahai..sadisnye diriku...)..

1) Keep yourself bizzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzyyyyyyy....(as for me, i failed on this..huhu..coz I really felt down on d 2-3days after we broke up)..but at least make yourself busy dengan mendekatkan diri padaNya...prays and doa a lot untuk mendapatkan petunjuk and ketabahan....

2) Keep your family and frens around u... dont menyendiri ok...go jalan2 wit family, hang out wit frens..believe me, it works..!!

3) Delete his/her contact number.....IMMEDIATELY..!! The strong reason of this action is because u should avoid to contact him/her anymore after you broke up (especially if he/she is d one who cheated on you...he/she deserve this..!!) U must make yourself a bit "expensive" which u shouldnt show that u are weak (even if u are)..and not to show that u are d only one yg terhegeh2 to chase after him/her....

4) Do Facebook-ing a lot.... chit chat wit frens or even new frens (make yourself available to them).... even before this u always avoiding them jus to be loyal to your bf/gf (but wat u get in return..?? huh..) and maybe u all dah rase macam cukup segala2nye masa ade bf/gf, so u don feel like need to update wit ur frens....now, its d time to update on frens news and also update urself to them too.....

5) Start looking into new things to do.... such as go for dancing class, register for gym, or music class, hiking, joining a club or...whatever that u never thaught like to do before...its really interesting when u realized that "oh..there are a lot of things that I never knew before and now Im on it..GREAT...!!!" Plus, u can expand your networking and maybe......boleh berjumpe dengan your true soul-mate....siape tahu kan... :)

I guess these 5 steps or cara (bukan kueh cara tau...hik3) are good enough to be tried... Cik dah cube, alhamdulillah, berkesan la juge...but, remember, its all take time for us to forget someone that we love, yg penting, kuatkan semangat and believe that ade hikmah di sebalik ape yang berlaku....

"It is not that we dont deserve to be loved, but it is just we deserve better"